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Dealing With Husband-Wife Conflicts | Qasim Ali Shah

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In this video, Qasim Ali Shah talking about on the topic "Dealing With Husband-Wife Conflicts". Few couples like to admit it, but conflict is common to all marriages. We have had our share of conflict and some of our disagreements have not been pretty. We could probably write a book on what not to do! Start with two selfish people with different backgrounds and personalities. Now add some bad habits and interesting idiosyncrasies, throw in a bunch of expectations, and then turn up the heat a little with the daily trials of life. Guess what? You are bound to have conflict. It’s unavoidable. Since every marriage has its tensions, it isn’t a question of avoiding them but of how you deal with them. Conflict can lead to a process that develops oneness or isolation. You and your spouse must choose how you will act when conflict occurs. He is also sharing his experience, wisdom and knowledge that will be helpful for all of those who want to know about it. ===== FOLLOW ME ON THE SOCIALS ===== - Qasim Ali Shah: https://goo.gl/6BKcxu - Google+: https://goo.gl/uPyGvT - Twitter: https://goo.gl/78MVoA - Website : https://goo.gl/Tgjy6u ===== Team Member: Waqas Nasir ===== #Marriage #HusbadWife #Shadi
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RUBINA yaqoob (14 hours ago)
Bhai I need your ph number please I think u can safe my marriage life thank u
shrskb (4 days ago)
Mr Ali Shah, First tell us who you area? Have you attained success in life? What is the level of your success? Are you some celebrity? Or Are you some self proclaimed Massiah? Why should we beleive and follow you? Give us your current standing so intellectuals like me take your words seriously. I have gone through some videos of yours (no need you to be glorified that I did some thorough research on your videos), you appear to present your ideas in an calculated manner but you are lacking clear logic. You try to glorify yourself, get impressed from yourself, try to impress the listeners by your calculated expression of ideas in technical terms but YOUR LOGIC IS WEAK AND AMBIGUOUS. To summarize it, your logic is the same as that of an every day truck driver or food hawker, only the difference is that you put it in technical language.
Mariam Umar (6 days ago)
Ignorance on part of wife only.. Sirf bivi ko ignor karna chaeye sab
LOVE FOR ALL (9 days ago)
ap ko ye bhi kehna chahea jo hm apni sister ke lea sochte hn dosre ki sister ke lea bhi wohi soch rakhe aur isi tarha bv bhi
jo jo (13 days ago)
Good sir...
Sana Allahi (15 days ago)
Plz plz plz sir contact no dy dy
Muhammad Aban (23 days ago)
Plz your contact number
Sohail Haider (1 month ago)
You are the only one in Pakistan
SamJaid SJ (1 month ago)
Mere husband kbi bahir ghumany nahi lekr jaty na kbi koi gift 🎁 dia, na kbi Shoping py lekr jaty but me fr b bardasht kr ri hu , kbi kbi bht gussa ata but me control krti hu and ye ulta mere py gussa hoty 😣 mujy bht hansi b ati ufff kia harkten hain bs ALLAH naik hidayat dy or hm sbki Magfrat farmen 🤲Ameen
Sadia Khan (1 month ago)
Beautiful video ''
Sheza Sheikh (1 month ago)
Kch sal ye SB suna hota to shyed meri talaq na hoti pr WO daily drink krty or meri 2 daughters hain beta ne may b ye reason b ho skta hai
Mia Hughes (1 month ago)
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Roshni's Beauty Saloon (1 month ago)
Onn logo k baray me b bate Jo bata ry ha is k olt ha
Sana Javed (2 months ago)
Sir agr husband crept ho to b sorry karna chayee merry nazdeek dhoka sab se barri tallak hai
Usmanomer Ayetfatina (2 months ago)
Thnx sir for urs amazing video
salwa waqas (2 months ago)
hasbnd gar zamdar ho .or apki zamdri waldin py phak day.or koi wada deal puri na krny wala ho .unko kise sahi kiya gy
Farah Awan (2 months ago)
Plz koi btaye es ka jwab
Farah Awan (2 months ago)
I have same question salwa,
Kiran Ibrahim (2 months ago)
Sir my friend 's husband is irresponsible what should she do
farida agha (3 months ago)
asslalam o alaikum bhaii.ap ke ke tamam videos super up hein.bhai ap say request hay us topic per jub husband chup kar dusri shadi karay aur bivi ko achanak pata chalay tou wo iss shok pay apnay ko kaisay commpose karay.murdon ko dusri shadi per islam yad aata hay.haqooq poora kurnay per wo islam bhool jaatay hein.aksur female iss shoking nwews per suicide kur laiti hein.kuch psychiatric medicine laiti hein.aisa hamare suiciety mein bohut ho raha hay.kuch ghr chorr kur chali jati hein.
Javed Iqbal (3 months ago)
Golden words
Aliyaan Ahmed (3 months ago)
Aslamualikum sir main apny husband k sath kush hon oun k ame mujy bardast nhi krti mujy har time tang krti hain main oun ko yahi kahti hon sath lay jy mujy or wo rakh b sakty hain
Muqdas Safdar (3 months ago)
Sir mera to koi ni h smjnany wala or ghar khrab he hota ja sotan ki waja sy ap he ustad bn jaein
Saima Zubair (3 months ago)
Assalamu alaikum sar sab ignore karke bhi mard agar galiyan de to Kya Karen
sonia arif (3 months ago)
Apka no milyga sir g mujhy ap sy bat krni ha
Maryam Shafiq (3 months ago)
Sir m big fan ov u n i realy want 2 met u serisly 🤗😊
Tahir Zafri (2 months ago)
00971564230774 Please reply only girls
Riyaheen Xaynab (3 months ago)
Assalamualaikum sir i need ur help.
G Naveed (3 months ago)
Sir mujy ap ka lecture sun kar bohat hosla houa
Seemi Us (3 months ago)
Sir i really like u and ur vedio .my husband loves me but he desires more wives .hamari larai is baat pr hoti he k wo mujhe mentally prepare krte hain k main raazi ho jaun k unhe shadi kerne doun lakin main iss baat pr larti hun . Kya iss baat pr lara ja sakta he yaan saber krun our jo hota he hone doun .our uski khusshi mein khussh ho jaoun
Seemi Us (3 months ago)
Sir mene ap se poucha he k kya mujhe iss baat pr khussh hona chahiye k mera shouher dousri yan teisri shadi keray jbk mujhe der lagta he permission dete hwe
Abdull Jabber (3 months ago)
Seemi pyari sister yeh husband aasy hi biwi ko tayar kerty hen Islam or pyaray nabi ki tarah haq Dena bhool jate Hain bad main parents ke ghar ke bad Jo pnahgah hoti he would bhi dozh been jati he
Isabella Awan (3 months ago)
Sir mere husband boht hard worker hean over time b kerty hean but kbi b wo over time earning hum per kharch nhe kerty mai jitna b inka sath do .... ghar ar bacho ki kbi fiker nhe di khud ache se sambhal lati hon tak k wo more work ker sakain but jab salary ki bari ati hea tu apne merzi se logo main kharch ker daty hean.... mujhy boht bora lagta hea plZ ek video bana dain tu plZ boht thankful hon gi
Shani Fareedi (3 months ago)
You are a great person sir
Jiya Khan (3 months ago)
Muje aik question krna hy ap se
azanmaan bajwa (4 months ago)
bohat acha bolty hain
Raza Rehman (4 months ago)
Jab husband wife thik ja rhy ho wife k absent hone pr susral waly husband ko lagae tu phir kia kry
Raza Rehman (4 months ago)
Jab husband wife thik ja rhy ho wife k absent hone pr susral waly husband ko lagae tu phir kia kry
rammal rajpoot (4 months ago)
Sir yeh bhi tu dakhy k kae baar sik frd thek hota hy tu dosra boht khrb
Naira59 LOL (4 months ago)
Only has and wife and father Mather family how moslim way deal with banla helth you
Bushra Mashhood (4 months ago)
I am from USA and want to discuss a matter. How can i contact you?
Tahir Zafri (2 months ago)
00971564230774 Please reply only girls
Mubeen Mirza (4 months ago)
Bv ko shohar sy expectation.....hoti hn. Kbi shohar b t compromise kry..... Ya bv py frz ho jata h ye
Aayan Khan (14 hours ago)
Sagi baat he
Adeela Rehan (26 days ago)
Blkul
Mubeen Mirza (4 months ago)
Sir ap ka kehna h k mafi mang lo t msla hal ho jata h. Lekin mafi mang lo t agla bnda khud ko pta nai kya smjny lg jata h. Even k wo apni ghlti ko b tslim nai krta shrminda kya khak hona h. Shadi hojaye t bv ko zar khreed ghulam smjny walon k Bary m apka kya khyal h?
Abtahi Awais (1 month ago)
@Nadia Kanwal read about personality disorders and if you find any red flags in your partner just run and save your life.
Syed Mubashir (1 month ago)
AGr Mafi hum mang le to samnay wala hum ko dar phok smjhta hai
FAHEEM’ Aktar (1 month ago)
But ap phr be maf kar do ik na ik din us ko Ehsaas ho jaega
Aliza Gul (1 month ago)
Aesa hi hai yar
Hassan Sajjad (4 months ago)
Hum judha ho rahy hain koi tu dua kary esa na ho
Hassan Sajjad (4 months ago)
Ameen
Alifiya Tariq (4 months ago)
Allah.karay aesa kabhi na ho
Samiulhaq Aadi (4 months ago)
You are too much Sir.
cute Mustufa (4 months ago)
Sir mairy kuch masly masail hain mai aap sy guideline chahte hon plz send me cell no JazakALLAH
cute Mustufa (4 months ago)
Assalam.o.alaikum sir aap ny bilkul sahe kaha k koi aisa shaks aap ke life mai zaror ho jo dono ko samjhai .
Hooram sheikh (4 months ago)
Sir plzzz aj kl k boys boht cheat krny lgy hn girls ko. or mohabbat k nam p dhoka dety hn phr chor k bhag jaty hn..Phr girls roti rehti hn. Ap boys ko smjhaen lecture den k wo girls o dhoka na den..
Syeda Unaza (4 months ago)
Is pori video mai sir forgivness wali baat na bht asr kia hai yhi baat clik kr gai . Awsm😊
IAM first iNdIaN IAM last IND (4 months ago)
سر بیوی اپنے شوہر پر شک کرتی بات دوسری عورتوں سے شروع ہوتی ہے پھر شوہر کے خاندان والوں کو برا بھلا کہتی ہے کوئی حل بتائیں
Rania Rania (5 months ago)
Ap mery husband ko smajyen plz
Rania Rania (5 months ago)
Sir mujhe ap sy milna ha mera ghr tabah ho raha ha meri saas ki waja sy plz help me 😭😭😭😭😭
Liiifis Precious (5 months ago)
Our responses and actions change when our goals and priorities change. Two people living together Need To Have a genuine amount of Patience to keep living happily with each other. We Must Not Compare Each Other. But ofcourse everything has its limits. Then it's time to sit and talk. Sometimes even talking to our spouse is even not worthy . Most couples keep going together because its not as easy to live without the most important person of our life. Because they love each other but are unable to Understand each other. So it's okay. Once u love someone .., U Just Can't Live Without that Person. No matter what ! Breaking marriages is not an easy task. We need to fit ourself with the other person as much as we can. And Trust our God. He Does Help Us If We R Positive and Actually Are Sincere in our Relationship. We should not Give up on our spouse . And must help our spouse become a healthy and happy person. We must try every effort to save our marriage. It's the most important relationship of a person's life. If we r so weak how will we raise our kids? Then what shall we expect from our kids? Verbal Fight is not the cause of distance b/w two people. But the differences in their goals of life , Lack of Understanding and Incapablility to digest each other's Negative Qualities and Interuption of In-Laws and secondary people in life and their lack of seriousness towards each other's priorities are the basic reasons of conflict. We should write to each other often if we don't have the capacity to understand each other verbally. I don't know about other countries but in Pakistan, ...... Most marriages are arranged. .... And in arrange marriages , ....most men think ,.... Ab to larhki phas gaee ! Ab to bacha ho gaya..... ! Ab to biwi susraal waalon aur mere saath har haal main adjust hogi .! Kyunkeh ab wo apni Virginity aur figure kho chuki hai..... us ke liye waapis peechay murh ke dekhna ek buhat tough decision hai. So i damn care us pe kya guzar rahi hai. Wo mere saath qush hai ya nahi. Mera to kaam ho gaya! ... Meree shaadi ho gaee. Mere ghar waalon ki naak oonchi ho gaee ...! Main to buhat barha teer maar liya..! Ab biwi ko mujhay samajhnay ki zaroorat nahi. Usay rehna to parhay ga mere saath har haal main. Wo definitely rahay gi . Aur Yoon shohar log apni biwi ko susraal main aur bachon main busy kar dete hain. Uske dil ka haal jaanna nahi chahtay lekin uske saath bachon ko lekar Dolmen mall main icecream khanay to ja saktay hain. Aur rishta "Taken For Granted " Samjha jhaata hai. Shohar log qud apni biwion se qud ko door hi rakhtay hain aur zyaada free nahi kartay. Mental Distance wahin se shuru hota hai. Aur shohar qud apni biwi ko nahi chorhtay kyunkeh wo jaantay hain is main zyaada faida abhi bhi mera aur mere ghar walon aur mere bachon ka hai. Wo jaantay hain jo shaqs sab se zyaada mutaassir hai wo meree biwi hai. Aur shayad uske liye mere saath rehna buhat mushkil hai lekin wo Aurat ki wafadaari ka faida uthaatay hain. Aur uski Weeknesses ka faida uthatay hain. Wo qud shaadi ko jaldi puraana kar dena chahtay hain. Kyunkeh usay baahar buhat achi larhaiyaan time paas ke liye mil jaati hain. Shohar chahtay hain ke jab tak biwi bardaasht kar sakti hai to karti rahay. Hum isay apni zindagi se ab nahi nikaal saktay kyunkeh hamain is se faiday zyaada hain. Aur nuqsaan kum. Kahin kahin aisa bhi hai keh shohar buhat sincere aur seedha hai to biwi ki tarbiyat theek nahi biwi wafadaar aur mehnti nahi. Relationship wahin End Up Ho Jaata hai jahaan ek spouse doosray ko buhat chahay aur doosra spouse uski parwaa bhi nahi karta bulkeh Time pass kar raha hota hai. " Jab tak ek bhi spouse ke dil main apnay doosray spouse se kuch Ummeed baaqi hoti hai...., Tab tak Marrital Relationship Baaqi rehta hai. ....Bus! Uske baad hota hai ek dhamaaka! Divorce!
bacha cute (5 months ago)
Gr8
Mehnaz Uldin (5 months ago)
Best
poonum khalid (6 months ago)
Very nice
Huma how can i buy these shoes plz tell me Khalil (6 months ago)
Sir ap ki ye vdio mai aise jaise hmairi azdawaji life ka zikar hwa hai. Ak miyan main 2 talwarayain. Mere husband 120 ki speed mai rehte hai meri b addat teezi ki hai jis ki wajha se jhagre ho jate hai ap ki batain sun k kafi smjh iiii tnanx😊😊😊
Gulnaz Afzal (6 months ago)
U are very telented
Talha's Home (6 months ago)
آپ کی وجہ سے میری ازدواجی زندگی بہت اچھی ہو گئ ہے میں نے اللہ پر توکل کر لیا مجھے بہت آسانی ہو گئ میں نے اپنے شوہر پر شک کرنا چھوڑ دیا
afshan nadeem (6 months ago)
how i contact with sir?
Irfan Fani (6 months ago)
Your great sir
Muhammad Riaz (6 months ago)
Very nice sir.....always keep on posting such video
Nafisa Sadiq (6 months ago)
sir !agresiv bacho ko kasy hndle kia jaye?plz ans me ....thnkx
Uzma Hayat khaan (6 months ago)
Salute Boss
TILISMI Vlogs Lifestyling (6 months ago)
Great lessons and motivational speeches' you just mentioned sth i hv been saying for years that noone will exchange his/her problems with anyone else. So true!!!
ali amir (6 months ago)
Sir u r great sir i want talk to uuuu sir please
Nasira Adil (6 months ago)
Es waja sy humri life mein bohat prblm a rhi hai
Nasira Adil (6 months ago)
Sir mujhy bholny ki bemari Hai too much hai
Nasira Adil (6 months ago)
Sir AGr husband sy sorry kryn aur wo na many tou
Asad Imdad (6 months ago)
Sir i want to meet you for talk to my martial status which is suffered in worry. Meri shadi ko 6 mah hue hn so me aap se kuch opinion lena chahta hu plz can i meet you ? From LHR
waterfall2018 2018 (6 months ago)
Sir ap please beard rakh lein.
pink wings (6 months ago)
Kitny pagal hei dislike krny waly sham on us psycho persons ek banda itni sachi our sahi bat kr rha hei our log itny jahil hei ky bat ko pasnd hi ni krty wah ji wah 😞
Yaqoot Diamond (6 months ago)
" Aalu ginana Zidagi hai ....?"......Hahahaha
Mursaleen Muhammad (6 months ago)
I'm still servive when my baby is 10 month old ...I cut my hand in my pregnancy n issue was I gave u 3 shampoo u use only one n where was other 2
Wasim Gill (2 months ago)
Meri behan aisey log sirf psycho hotey hn. Aqalmand log nhi krtey aisa.
pink wings (6 months ago)
Hooo dear but kyun ase kiya yar ap ne our ab bhi kiya wo ase hi baten krty hein kiya ?😯
Mardan lundkhwar (7 months ago)
Very nice
Amna Rehman (7 months ago)
Ye bht choty se prbs hain...mera bht bara prb he...ksy ap se share karun?
md fa (6 months ago)
Allah se kare
Muhammad Ibrahim (7 months ago)
Sir you are a great person 💖😍
shakeela Rasheed (7 months ago)
Salaam sir moji aap ki baati bohot achi lagti hain
Hamza Aziz (7 months ago)
sir proud of you good leader
Happy Jan (7 months ago)
Bhi I have a big problem plzz mujy bt krni H
Binte Hasan (7 months ago)
In the effort to become financially stable the whole young age is consumed and ones social life is compromised spiritual life can be developed
Mariam Umar (6 days ago)
And that life which is compromised will never come back
imdad hussain (7 months ago)
Sir qasim ali shah you are great person sir🥰😘love you sir
Shoukatali123 Shoukat (7 months ago)
Assalaikum sir
Shahreen Shahreen (7 months ago)
Nice topick
Nosheen Zahra (7 months ago)
Shah G ap great han .....
gul anwar (8 months ago)
aameen
Abdul Basit (8 months ago)
میں اپنے شوہر کے سارے کام خود کرنا چاہتی ہوں جب کہ میرے شوہر مجھے منع کر دیتے ہیں اور نوکر کو آوازیں لگاتے ہیں کہ وہ میرا کام کریں کریں
Abdul Basit (8 months ago)
سر ایک پروگرام نوکر پر بھی کریں میرے شوہر کو قابو کر لیا ہے میرے نوکر نے نے پہلے میر عادی تھا اب میرے شوہر کا عادی ہو گیا ہے اور یہ سانحہ میرے سخت بیماری کے دوران ہوا
saad awano (7 months ago)
Nokar mean larka? Ye kese ho sakta hy
Abdul Basit (8 months ago)
واقعی پریگنسی میں ہی میرے شوہر میرے ہاتھ سے نکل رہے تھے ایک نہیں ماشاءاللہ پانچ بچے پیدا کیے اور سب بچوں میں یہی حالت تھی
Faisal Honey (8 months ago)
Chal be chutiyaaa
TABREZ Malik (8 months ago)
Behtreen line . K kia yeh baat hai k is baat par larha jaye
Saira Sherjang (8 months ago)
a.o.a sir m belong city okara.dr m arif siddique k bd m ap sy impress hn.mian b v k relation k hwaly sy ap ka mshwara chaheay.plz rply me.
Lazawal Beyan (8 months ago)
Ma bht partn hu mjy kuch baty MA kya karu
Lazawal Beyan (8 months ago)
Bhai Mari shadi nai hu puru khandn sy lar kr mgni karwai ab Mary husband mj sy sdhy Mu BT tk nai karty khty ha tm NY pnt,shrt q phni ya q kya WO q kya har wkth larty ha MA hsptl tk ponch GI hu dctr khty ha partn nai ho PR roz Jo lari ha us ka kya karu plz tl me
sharafat ali (7 months ago)
Jb ap apne husband k lea kuch kro gi mean jukho gi tu wo bi ap k lea kuch kre gy jhukhy gy simple si bt hia ap kisi ki bt mana kro gi tu koe ap ki bt mne ga na
Mujahid Anwaar (8 months ago)
bring patience in life
Attiya Kakee (8 months ago)
Sir kuch khawateen ko yeh shikayat hoti hai keh unkai husbands itney boorey ho jatey hain phir bhi her thorey waqt baad mohabbat ho jati hain halan keh wo bohat farmanbardar bhi hoti hain and loves so much with thier husbands!! Wo kiya karein!!! Kiya aisey husbands psycho hotey hain?? Plzz reply someone around me is in trouble??
Mukhtar Akram (3 months ago)
Hmmmm i think u right
iqra 01 (8 months ago)
I dn agree wth u
Haiderali 03044605796 (8 months ago)
💝🌹😘
Rana Qasir (8 months ago)
Great sir
Afra Abdiya (8 months ago)
I'm from India shah sahab ki lecture bahut ache hotel hai Pakistan me bahut ache log rahte hai
Fari Mano (8 months ago)
Sir Mara second bacha h par dono bar zilat he mil rhi h....
One & Only (4 months ago)
Same here dear😢
yaro k sang zindagi k raang (8 months ago)
Mahshaallah very nice bhaiya mein apki fan hoon
Mubarka Anand (8 months ago)
Sir you are ocean of knowledge, Big fan of yours Respect from a sister in London
Zunaira Waqas (8 months ago)
Yvv
altah hussain (8 months ago)
Sir ap sy live kesy bat hu skti h mjy ap sy apna msla share krna ta k koi bhtr suggetion ml sky..plz
Doctor Mario (8 months ago)
Ap wasif ali wasif ko zrurat se ziada ehmiyat detay hai kio
MEHAK NUR u soufzai (5 months ago)
Apk0 kiia 😏
Aaisha Zakaria (8 months ago)
Ask..qasim ji...m from UP n my husband is a doc. we have 3n half year of marriage...bt Meri apni family financially week hai...jiski wjh se hmare beech understanding respects values ni hai...coz he believes in culture n tradition...bt I always try my bst.Allah se umeedon k sahare...what should I do for being respectful relationship...
Rabia Zulfiqar (8 months ago)
Sahi kaha agr parents powerful hun to larki ki bht izat hoti hai wrna bht kuch deakhna parta